I am confused!

I have a question I must ask:
I have a talk with a friend who is also a Viggo-Fan and she ask me where I do post and I tell her about this wonderful forum, where all is so friendly. And then she tells me, this Forum is banned and everybody who is member here too? I didn't want to believe that, maybe she understands something wrong and mixed something together.
But she shows me a mail and there somebody says, that you are stealing things and not respecting rules and everybody is angry with you now. And now we all better go far away from you.
I cannot understand everything in this mail, but it was not nice what they wrote about you and this forum was on the list of the places that we better not visit anymore.
So now I do not know what to do? Are they lying about you? Because I think you are very nice and I want to tell my friend so. But I am still confused about this. Can you please tell me what to tell my friend now?

oh what the bloody hell is that?

This board is brans new,how can it be banned?
Can I ask you for something?
can I see this e-mail?

Well,I didn't steal anything,all I did i done from me,pictures,banners..
only the logo is not made by me,but a friend did this for me!!

So all in this e-mail is a lie!
But you chose do you want to visit the board or not!!

Well…it really doesn’t seem good. I’m afraid, Lisa, that you are the one, who has to decide. But I can tell you this: Everything is so relative. If I tell you that we are kind and friendly people and others are liars, would you believe me, would you believe us? Make it any sense when fans of someone like Viggo, who does what he can to bring peace between people, want to separate up themselfs, when they insult themselfs? Consider this: Is someone who send e-mails about other sites that are „banned“ nice and trustworthy? Who decide, what places are banned? I don’t know that. And I don’t care about that. Everything I care about, is if the people I speak with are nice to me and to others, if they are sincere. If they are, I have no problem to consider them as friends. I believe in human kindness, sincerity, love and peace. And I try to be kind to everyone. So I don’t want to say, that other Viggo – fans are bad. You must decide. I know, that it is hard for you…

There are some qotes by Viggo I appreciate:


"We actually have more in common with other people, other cultures and other races, than not. People need to make a conscious effort to try and find some common ground, rather than react to what they see as differences.“

„How you connect with others and how you relate to the world around you is what really is the hope of people and mankind.“

„Be kind, it’s worthwhile to make an effort to learn about other people and figure out what you might have in common with them. If you allow yourself to be somewhat courious, and if you get into the habit of doing that, it’s the first step to being open-minded …and realizing, that your points of view aren‘t totally opposite. I don’t think anyone’s are in the end, it’s just a question of findig out by spending time with them or giving their ideas a chance to be considered.“

„I think you can belong anywhere. I think you can make yourself at home anywhere. It makes very little sense now to speak about outsiders, about ‘the other’ in the sense of not being connected to them. I mean, it was once possible, because there were less people and peoples of the world were more isolated. If I return to Manhattan, just visually, where I was born, or if I go to, I mean any number of places I’ve lived, Buenos Aires, if I see the skyline of Copenhagen and its church towers, if I fly into Wellington, New Zealand, there’s a certain comfort, there’s a certain nostalgia, all that. I mean the world is becoming more mixed…“


„…But there’s something that they have, that they know, probably, that you could talk to them about, rather than fighting it. You can make all the restrictions you want and build all the fences you want, but I think that the idea that the more walls you build whether it be rules about import/export and tariffs in terms of culture, in terms of religion, race, the more you build these walls, the more you call yourself special as a people or as a race or a region, you know, and try to keep the others out.... I mean a wall has two sides...what you’re really doing, you know, you’re really building your own prison.“

Well,Nice speech,Nin!

All what I can say is you are very right!!

Thanks

Perhaps someone just envy us this nice new site and wants to make trouble in here!

Everything is possible,Vigs

Thanks so much Snowy I just wrote what I think. I'm glad, you agree with me!

Well,I think I am the one who gotta thank you!
Yep,I am agree with you!

Thanks Nin! I like your speech, too!